Professional Dev

Networking Playbook

Move beyond awkward coffee chats—treat networking like mission planning.

Networking Playbook

Why networking matters

  • Internal referrals drive shortlists.
  • You learn about comp/lifestyle/culture before interviews.
  • You’re doing the employee a favor (most need to source talent).
  • Elite roles (consulting, IB) require it.

Informational interviews

Treat them like real interviews.

  • Prep like a first-round (company news, role, industry basics).
  • Ask alumni/peers for 25–30 minutes.
  • Goal: learn + earn a referral.
  • Always send a thank-you email afterward.

What to share

  • Summarize your background, why you pursued grad school, concentrations, key interests.
  • Show curiosity and enthusiasm for their path.

Questions to ask

  • “What was your background before this role?”
  • “How does your day actually look?”
  • “What skills/traits succeed here?”
  • “What’s the typical progression?”
  • “If I’m interested in X long-term, what routes get there?”
  • “What surprised you about the job/company?”

About the company/industry

  • “How would you describe the culture?”
  • “Why did you pick this firm over others?”
  • “What’s happening in this industry now? Any must-read journals/podcasts?”

Do’s and don’ts

  • Don’t ask for a job—ask for advice.
  • Don’t make them do your homework.
  • Don’t ask recruiters if they hire internationals (info is public; apply anyway).
  • Do proofread every email.
  • Do respect their time and follow up.

Finishing the conversation

  • Ask how hiring managers might view your background.
  • Request feedback on your resume if appropriate.
  • Ask who else you should meet (“May I mention your name when I reach out?”).
  • Send a thank-you within 24 hours.

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